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Sangat Ka Asar

What is the meaning of "Sangat ka Asar"? It means "Impact of Company" :Impact of near by Environment, friends Circle etc In my view, we become friends with those who likes the thing we like or with those , what we want to be. And accordingly our behavior, mindset, our look outs, our actions change. People want to be successful, should stay/roam/make friendship with successful people only. What happens in the process? As human being, we observe and try to copy the behavior of the person near by. We observe the company of good people and try to duplicate the same. We listen to the talks of successful people. They do not speak/discuss cheap things. So our mindsets change accordingly and we speak accordingly. We see their actions and reactions for different situations. We try to duplicate the same. We become successful most of the time. They always carry a positive energy around. We become the part of that positive energy. If we are in negative energy, i...

Unconditional LOVE

Three of us were just having discussion over a road side tea. It was started with a regular discussion & went in to a  discussion about LOVE. LOVE !!! Question was,why two persons love each other but they just broke up and go for another relationship after some days. Instantly my answer was because of compatibility. "It was a regular day. They just met in college/school/road/train/bus/flight/airport/party through a common friend/on a discussion/due to fight. But started to call/meet everyday and felt that special experience of compatibility (s/he is not of my type 100% but may be 80%. S/he is not that bad, we will make good pair) & became more than a friend" Some Decades/years/months/weeks passed... With age & with new company (Friends, colleagues, environments) hobbies change, attitude gets changed, thought process gets changes...lots of changes happen. And those old compatibility ratio (In both's Mind only) also changed.  If it becomes mo...