Unconditional LOVE

Three of us were just having discussion over a road side tea.

It was started with a regular discussion & went in to a  discussion about LOVE.

LOVE !!!

Question was,why two persons love each other but they just broke up and go for another relationship after some days. Instantly my answer was because of compatibility.

"It was a regular day. They just met in college/school/road/train/bus/flight/airport/party through a common friend/on a discussion/due to fight. But started to call/meet everyday and felt that special experience of compatibility (s/he is not of my type 100% but may be 80%. S/he is not that bad, we will make good pair) & became more than a friend"
Some Decades/years/months/weeks passed...

With age & with new company (Friends, colleagues, environments) hobbies change, attitude gets changed, thought process gets changes...lots of changes happen. And those old compatibility ratio (In both's Mind only) also changed. 

If it becomes more, the love becomes more stronger. In the other case, it remains same or goes down & if anyone gets better compatibility (In Mind)  with any other person, old relationship breaks and new relation ship gets build up.

It is just like chemical bonds. Stronger bonds last for long.

After saying this, I thought "Compatibility can't be measured, it is just mindset. So something else should be there for this logic." 

After some silence. 

It just came "Parents to there child, love is unconditional. So that love is great. In regular life also if love is unconditional, then it will last long."

In Software language (Staying in Bangalore, I am to speak that language also) a loop is stopped when there is a condition. Unconditional loops never ends. Similarly in life, if there is condition in love, love is not true love. When the condition full filled/not full filled , story gets a break up or stop. And another condition comes to move again. So love lasts long when it is unconditional.

This is just a discussion over road side tea. But think deeply.....

Thanks for your comments and time.

Comments

  1. belaSep 6, 2014, 10:56:00 PM

    Kinda true..u don't get to know as such..and it depends upon d relationship too...

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  2. UnknownSep 6, 2014, 11:12:00 PM

    It is true. Love should be unconditional. I believe in unconditional love.

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  3. UnknownSep 9, 2014, 3:40:00 PM

    People who see compatibility & get into relationship will not be true love at all(in my opinion)... Love is unconditional, it should not depend on circumstances,change of place,friends, etc. True love will always be unconditional.

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