TRUST: A Winner's Attitude
I Trust you.
This 3 words sentence has more power than "I love YOU". I may love someone but if I do not him/her, there is no meaning of love. With the word "Love", the word "Trust" should come free. Means when we love someone that time trust should come automatically. But That does not happen, so love marriages fail, break up happens. This is the truth. We trust someone when we see that he/she likes us or does the way we love to do something.
Trust is something we deal it with everyday. I may or may not like someone, I may hate that person but I trust him 0r her more than my friend. Take an example of your best enemy * , you hate him/her like anything but you trust more on him/her. You trust that he/she won't attack you until she/he warns you. In real business world business work on trust. I trust my suppliers that they will supply me on time. I trust my employees that they will deliver the work on time. (But to control and improvement we have different other tactics).
So trust is one of the winners attitude. So people success.
* Your friends are not the best friend , they are the worst enemy. They pull your leg in public places where you feel embrace. So I always say "the best enemy" is a person who attacks you from the front, not from the back.
Trust is something we deal it with everyday. I may or may not like someone, I may hate that person but I trust him 0r her more than my friend. Take an example of your best enemy * , you hate him/her like anything but you trust more on him/her. You trust that he/she won't attack you until she/he warns you. In real business world business work on trust. I trust my suppliers that they will supply me on time. I trust my employees that they will deliver the work on time. (But to control and improvement we have different other tactics).
So trust is one of the winners attitude. So people success.
"I trust myself"
It is another big saying. very few people have the courage to say this. Successful people have this type of attitude. Take example of Steve jobs He had trust on him that iPod will be great success and it is. Similarly Bajaj Pulsar is another success story. When we trust ourselves, then only we can achieve success.
When somebody say I do not trust you, that hurts me more than when he/she says I hate you or I will kill you. We do not build relationship (friendship, enemy, family, student-lecture, boss-subordinate etc), we build TRUST....
So never say " I Love you" only always say "I love you and trust you"
Similarly never propose a girl "Do you love me?". ,but ask 1st "Do you trust me?", if yes then go further and ask "Then can I get your heart to keep with me for long?"... You can be creative in 2nd sentence...
I forgot about marriages: someone marry you because he/she trusts you. So never break his/her trust. You may not like him/her but never ever break the trust. That hurts a lot.....
Note: Waiting for your feedback.
It is another big saying. very few people have the courage to say this. Successful people have this type of attitude. Take example of Steve jobs He had trust on him that iPod will be great success and it is. Similarly Bajaj Pulsar is another success story. When we trust ourselves, then only we can achieve success.
When somebody say I do not trust you, that hurts me more than when he/she says I hate you or I will kill you. We do not build relationship (friendship, enemy, family, student-lecture, boss-subordinate etc), we build TRUST....
So never say " I Love you" only always say "I love you and trust you"
Similarly never propose a girl "Do you love me?". ,but ask 1st "Do you trust me?", if yes then go further and ask "Then can I get your heart to keep with me for long?"... You can be creative in 2nd sentence...
I forgot about marriages: someone marry you because he/she trusts you. So never break his/her trust. You may not like him/her but never ever break the trust. That hurts a lot.....
Note: Waiting for your feedback.
* Your friends are not the best friend , they are the worst enemy. They pull your leg in public places where you feel embrace. So I always say "the best enemy" is a person who attacks you from the front, not from the back.
Hey Bhagwan!!
ReplyDeleteYe robo ko kya ho gaya hai...
Ye to ab pyar mohabbat se connect karke blog likhne laga hai..but it's good to diversify ideas once in a while...
"I trust you" comes with "I love You". Right? But both are originated from "I EXPECT FROM YOU" means EXPECTATION...
ReplyDeleteJust think:
We fall in love with someone because we expect a positive response from him/her.
We marry someone because we expect that "He/She will be every time there when we need"
Now come to TRUST:
We trust some one because we expect that he will do, react and take action according to our expectation. That's why we trust some one...
TRUST <- LOVE <- EXPECTATION
Regards,
Soumya Ranjan
@ Soumya: Expectation does not come before Trust.. It comes after trust that to sometime.... And My blog says... Trust->Love,not Love leads to trust... And expectation comes after trust is bulit not before that.. I expect someone will do something bcz I trust him Other wise there is no expectation....
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